Click to go to NLPMax web site.             Bi-Monthly Newsletter    (January/February - 2009)
 * This edition: Mark Twain's quote; FOCUS POWER article, and special events around our globe.
Flash on Fritz Perls - Psychiatrist and psychotherapist 1893-1970

Many of the early "patterns" of humanistic neuro-linguistic programming came into existence by "modeling" experts in psychology, like Fritz Perls, Virginia Satir, and Milton Erickson, M.D. (Clinical Hypnotherapy). This NLPMax edition opens with a quick flash on Fritz Perls:

Fritz Perls created the term “Gestalt Therapy”. The core of the Gestalt Therapy is the promotion of awareness, the awareness of the unity of all present feelings and behaviors, and the contact between the self and its environment.

One of Perls famous quotes says “Our dependency makes slaves out of us, especially if this dependency is a dependency of our self-esteem. If you need encouragement, praise, pats on the back from everybody, then you make everybody your judge.”

Born in Berlin, Germany in July 8, 1893, Fritz left some great books about Gestalt such as "The Gestalt Approach and Eye Witness to Therapy", "Gestalt Therapy: Excitement and Growth in the Human Personality", "In and Out the Garbage Pail", "Gestalt therapy verbatim", "Dream Therapy and Demonstration", "The Gestalt Approach & Eyewitness to Therapy", "Neurosis, Psychosis and Dreams", among others.

Quote of the Month

      “I had thousands of problems in my life - Most of which never happened.”
                                                                                                              Mark Twain

Article of the Month

FOCUS POWER

      by L. Michael Hall, Ph.D.

The Magic of Focus Power

When we are fully engaged with something so that our focus of attention is strong, riveting, and sustained, it feels good and is magical. We experience an economy of effort. Every thought, emotion, and action seems smooth and elegant. Our actions flow as if in an effortless fashion. We’re "in the one." We are in flow.

Casting a Spell for Focus-Power

What is the spell that needs to be cast upon us so that we enter into the magical state of focus power? What are the component elements that make up this empowering state? In Neuro-Semantics we call this laser-beam focus state a genius state. That’s because being all there with our resources and showing up so that we are fully present enables us to act with more congruence, alignment, and engagement.

1) Sensory Awareness in the moment.

Being in sensory awareness means being fully present with our mind and body. It means seeing and seeing, hearing and hearing, feeling and feeling. While that may sound easy, it is not. While any child can do that, most adults cannot. Most adults have lost that ability or only retain it minimally. Why? Because we can so easily move up the levels of the mind and get lost in the ozone of abstractions. When that happens, our mind gets in the way—our concepts, beliefs, understandings, etc. When this happens, we can no longer see the world innocently. We see th world as colored by our concepts and beliefs. The solution is to "lose our mind and come back to our senses."

Via sensory awareness, we are able to see and hear and feel afresh. We are able to just be aware and observe what is. This is a rare gift.

2) Running our own brain.

It’s hard if not impossible to focus if you are not in charge of running your own brain. Do you have that option opened to you? Is that a choice you can choose? Of course, to run your own brain, you have to know how to run it. To move to the place where we truly have choice in our live we have to have the ability. Without the power to choose, there is no choice. And choice means that we have multiple options. To only have one option is to have no choice. When we have two options, we have a dilemma, this or that. It is only through having a multiple choice list of options that we have choice.

3) Clarity of what we value as important.

Focus also emerges from clarity of priorities. If we do not have a clear vision of what’s important or choice of our priorities, we will not have a focus of attention. What’s important to us? Why is that important? What do we get from that? What do we understand about that? Focus weakens at the rate and degree that our clarity of purpose becomes less and less clear, more confused and ambiguous.

4) Trust of ourselves and the focusing experience.

The spell for focus must include self-trust. It is self-doubt that distracts. It is self-fear, self-contempt, self-worry. For us to focus on one thing and give our full attention to it, we need to believe in ourselves, and trust our ability to learn, decide, and choose. Anything less weakens focus. When we release ourselves to that which we’re engaged in and let go to the experience of focused engagement—we experience the flow state of top athletes in the zone. Then the magic happens.

5) Resilience in returning to focus.

In focusing our aim is not to create an focus and never lose it. Focus ebbs and flows as the stream of our consciousness moves and flows. Our aim is to more quickly return to our engagement when we lose focus. Losing focus is just part of the way "mind" works, returning to focus means we’re able to catch ourselves and re-evoke the focused state.

6) Challenged to sally out from one’s safety zone.

Czikszentmihalyi postulated that the flow state operates between the extremes of challenge and safety. With too much safety we feel bored; with too much challenge and we are overwhelmed and so feel anxiety. When we have a balance so that we have enough challenge to our skills to be drawn and attracted we move into "the flow channel" that’s just right for optimal engagement and learning. This keeps the excitement up without threatening the basic security.

Focus fades with the negative emotions of anxiety, insecurity, and demandingness as it does with boredom. In boredom, our focus weakens until we fall asleep, alertness fades.

7) Practicing the skill of focusing.

Focus is a skill and, as such, is learnable. The nice thing about learning how to "pay" attention is that as we learn to focus and then come back to our focus and to ignore distractions and let follow our interest, we become more skilled at it. Doing so necessitates becoming meta-aware of our focus so that we notice where our attention goes, what grabs it, how strongly it is grabbed, and what we can do to keep returning to our focus. What are the key variables in your awareness that supports a more intense focus? When thought balls pop into the court of your consciousness, just notice them and decide—decide what you most want.

8) A energetic sense of decisiveness.

It takes a decision to focus our attention on an event, person, or idea. And it takes a decisive state of clarity about intention, understanding, and purpose to say Yes to our attention and No to everything that would interfere, interrupt, or distract from that intention. Decisiveness is the state that drives focus. Indecision weakens focus and nurtures inattention and distractive attention.

In practicing focus, most physical acts (i.e., exercise, gardening, hobbies) because they are willed give us a way to develop our intentional capacity. William James suggested the practice of "the useless exercise" for those who want to strengthen their will power.

"Keep alive in yourself the faculty of making efforts by little useless exercises every day. Be systematically heroic every day in little unnecessary things; do something every day for no other reason than its difficulty; so that, when the hour of dire need draws nigh, it may find you not unnerved and untrained to stand the test. ... The man who has daily inured himself to habits of concentration, attention, energetic volition and self denial in unnecessary things will stand like a tower when everything rocks around him and his softer fellow mortals are winnowed like chaff in the blast." (From Personality and Personal Growth, James Fadiman)

So What are the Secrets for Focus Power?

It was in my research on resilience that I first happened upon many of the key secrets of focus power. It was really an accident. I was looking not to understand focus, attention, or concentration, but how to model the state-upon-state structure of resilience. That led to the discovery of Meta-States. This model describes the levels of the mind which explains why and how we never just think. No. We think (and feel) about our thoughts and emotions. This reflexiveness of the mind creates our frames of mind and layers of frames—the matrix of our frames.

Accessing Personal Genius is a three-day training that enables participants to mix 12 essential factors or prerequisites of "mastery" to create the emergent experience of focus power. This describes the genius-like state that every top-performer experiences from Olympic athletes to world-class leaders and speakers, to inventors, to successful entrepreneurs, and even lovers. With focus power you will be able to do so much because you will be all there, in your best states, in the zone, in "flow." This is the state that makes attention deficit problems, stress, feeling defeated, blocked, etc. redundant.

Summary

My invitation to you is to check you the Accessing Your Personal Genius training. It is now being taught around the world by many Neuro-Semantic Trainers ... it is your introduction to Meta-States ... and it is your introduction to a world of focus power.

Author:

L. Michael Hall, Ph.D. invented Meta-States to give structure to self-reflexive consciousness in 1994 and so launched the Meta-States Model, Neuro-Semantics, and more recently the Matrix Model. See for much more about this ... and for a calendar of upcoming trainings ... and for Neuro-Semantic Trainers around the world.
Special Events Around the Globe (Agenda February and March 2009)
ZETETIC PRACTITIONER
Contact: Elizabeth M Pritchard
From Date:    02/05/2009       To Date:    02/08/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Practitioner course. Cornwall. Classic Code & New Code. Joseph & Elizabeth Pritchard

United Kingdom

NLP PRACTITIONER CERTIFICATION UNIT 2
Contact: 416-928-2394 OR EMAIL news@nlpcanada.com
From Date:    02/07/2009       To Date:    02/08/2009
DETAILS:
Feb 7/8 NLP Practitioner Certification Unit 2 9 AM - 6 PM Linda Ferguson & Chris Keeler

Toronto - Canada

NLP LIFE ENHANCEMENT WEEKENDS
Contact: Michael Connolly 051-590993 / 086-8335425 - OR BY EMAIL michael@nlp.ie
From Date:    02/07/2009       To Date:    05/17/2009
DETAILS:
The Life Enhancement Weekend is a two day personal journey into enhancing the quality of your life. An Introduction to Personal Coaching You are interested in improving and enhancing your life. You long for clarification of your life’s purpose. You are looking for a way of feeling happier and of achieving more in your life. You are seeking for motivation to give you the get up and go to live brilliantly. The NLP Life Enhancement workshop provides all of this and more. It is the most empower You may choose a weekend from February until May - 2009

Dublin - Ireland

SPIRAL DYNAMICS
Contact: Jairo Mancilha jairo@pnl.med.br
From Date:    02/09/2009       To Date:    02/10/2009
DETAILS:
During its evolution in the past decades Spiral Dynamics integral - SDi - has emerged to a system theory in which scientific accuracy has interconnected with a strength to initiate and sustainably configure change processes on a deep level. Dr. Don E. Beck, pioneer, motor and guiding spirit of this perspective is looking back on a 30 year experience of checking out and applying Spiral Dynamics in a broad spectrum of different areas including South Africa where he was substantially involved in t

Rio de Janeiro - Brazil

MILESTONES & INUKSHUKS
Contact: 416-928-2394 OR EMAIL news@nlpcanada.com
From Date:    02/12/2009       To Date:    02/12/2009
DETAILS:
Feb 12 Milestones & Inukshuks 7:30 PM - 9:45 PM Donation to Heart & Stroke Linda Ferguson & Chris Keeler

Toronto - Canada

CRISIS, TRANSITION AND TRANSFORMATION
Contact: Tel 011-52-3- 615-8447, 615-8722, 615-3461, 615-3464 cmpnlven@megared.net.mx
From Date:    02/13/2009       To Date:    02/15/2009
DETAILS:
cmpnlven@megared.net.mx

Guadalajara - Mexico

THE ALIGNED SELF AND CORE TRANSFORMATION
Contact: Lindagail at 541-535-5932
From Date:    02/14/2009       To Date:    02/15/2009
DETAILS:
Join us for two profound days of personal transformation. Improve your relationships and develop clear boundaries in a way that honors and respects yourself and others. Move past situations that have been limiting you. Gain valuable perspective and avoid becoming ‘emotionally triggered’. Learn how to naturally become more objective, proactive, and clear, as you relate well to people who are important to you and can also be challenging to deal with. In this dynamic and experiential weekend This material is some of the most potent for deep and lasting personal change in the vast field of NLP. Formerly available only to advanced students of NLP at Master Practitioner Level, now you can experience this life-changing work in one very significant weekend. No prerequisite for this class, open to all. Hidden Springs, 1651 Siskiyou Blvd, Ashland, Oregon 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Saturday and Sunday Lodging options for our friends from out of town. Questions? Contact Lindagail by phone or e-mail at 541-535-5932 or LgNLP@aol.com Tuition: $295. Save $100 when you register by February 1. Register with a friend & both save another $50. Space is limited

Ashland - Oregon, United States

NLP PRACTITIONER CERTIFICATION TRAINING
Contact: +64 9 6223544 (www.intandem.co.nz)
From Date:    02/19/2009       To Date:    04/04/2009
DETAILS:
A comprehensive course in communication, leadership and personal management for people seeking a qualification to make NLP a core professional skill. During this program you will learn, experience and work with the many perspectives and processes that make NLP effective and elegant no matter what the context. This program is run in four day modules allowing you to get maximum benefits in learning and practice. Session 1: February 19 - 22, Session 2: February 26 - 29, Session 3: March 12 - 15, Session 4: March 26 - 29, Session 5: April 03 - 04. Times: 9.30am till 5.30pm daily.

Auckland - New Zealand (Aotearoa)

NLP PRACTITIONER CERTIFICATION FEBRUARY 2009
Contact: 04-3430888 OR EMAIL carol@matrix-training.com
From Date:    02/19/2009       To Date:    02/28/2009
DETAILS:
19th - 22nd & 26th - 28th February 2009 (7 day accelerated program)

Dubai - United Arab Emirates

ZETETIC MASTER PRACTITIONER
Contact: Elizabeth M Pritchard
From Date:    02/19/2009       To Date:    02/22/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Master Practitioner course. Cornwall. Joseph & Elizabeth Pritchard, Pamela Gawler Wright www.zeteticmind.com

United Kingdom

NLP PRACTITIONER CERTIFICATION UNIT 3
Contact: 416-928-2394 OR EMAIL news@nlpcanada.com
From Date:    02/21/2009       To Date:    02/22/2009
DETAILS:
Feb 21/22 NLP Practitioner Certification Unit 3 9 AM - 6 PM Linda Ferguson & Chris Keeler

Toronto - Canada

ZETETIC MODELLING
Contact: Joseph Pritchard
From Date:    02/26/2009       To Date:    03/01/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Modelling course. Cornwall. Joseph Pritchard www.zeteticmind.com

United Kingdom

FITNESS FOR THE FUTURE
Contact: Tel/Fax +44(0)0870 7744 32 info@ppdlearning.co.uk
From Date:    02/27/2009       To Date:    03/01/2009
DETAILS:
info@ppdlearning.co.uk

London - United Kingdom

COACHING SKILLS - MODULE 1
Contact: zurina@selfleadership.com - P: +65 6887 4335
From Date:    03/02/2009       To Date:    03/04/2009
DETAILS:
Coaching is recognised as one of the most effective tools to get the best out of individuals and teams. The ability to coach turns technicians and professionals into people managers and increases learning, development and productivity within an organisation. To be an effective coach one must learn and develop a key set of competencies including: building rapport, reading people, asking the “right” questions, listening, clarifying outcomes, giving appropriate feedback and finding the leverage How to run your own brain. How manage your mind-body-emotional state. The magical effects of language. How to build instant rapport. How to ask precise questions that create clarity for both speaker and listener. How to read body language and non-verbal communication. How to influence people using their own communication preference. How to induce confidence and trust. How to overcome fears and phobias. (Early Bird (by 15 Dec 2008: SG$1950; Full Investment: SG$2450)

Singapore - Singapore

COACHING SKILL 2 - COACHING GENIUS
Contact: zurina@selfleadership.com - P: +65 6887 4335
From Date:    03/05/2009       To Date:    03/07/2009
DETAILS:
Coaching is unlocking a person's potential to maximise their own performance. Coaching enables people to exercise self-leadership. Self-leadership is knowing who you are, what you can do and where you are going, coupled with the ability to manage your communication and emotions on the way to getting there. To create change in others the coach must first have self leadership and be able to facilitate others to access their own self-leadership. This programme builds on coaching essentials (modu Early Bird (by Dec 2008) = SG$1950, Full Investment SG$2450

Singapore - Singapore

ZETETIC PRACTITIONER
Contact: Elizabeth M Pritchard
From Date:    03/05/2009       To Date:    03/08/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Practitioner course. Cornwall. Classic Code & New Code. Joseph & Elizabeth Pritchard www.zeteticmind.com

United Kingdom

PERFORMANCE CONDITIONING
Contact: 416-928-2394 OR EMAIL news@nlpcanada.com
From Date:    03/08/2009       To Date:    03/08/2009
DETAILS:
Mar. 8 Performance Conditioning 10 AM - 5 PM $75 Linda Ferguson & Chris

Toronto - Canada

THE RULES OF IMPROVISATION
Contact: 416-928-2394 OR EMAIL news@nlpcanada.com
From Date:    03/12/2009       To Date:    03/12/2009
DETAILS:
Mar. 12 The Rules of Improvisation 7:30 PM - 9:45 PM Donation to Heart & Stroke Linda Ferguson & Chris Keeler

Toronto - Canada

ZETETIC MASTER PRACTITIONER
Contact: Elizabeth M Pritchard
From Date:    03/12/2009       To Date:    03/15/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Master Practitioner course. Cornwall. Joseph & Elizabeth Pritchard, Pamela Gawler Wright www.zeteticmind.com

United Kingdom

FAST-TRACK NLP SPORTS PRACTITIONER
Contact: Jeremy Lazarus - 020 8349 2929
From Date:    03/28/2009       To Date:    05/08/2009
DETAILS:
This 3 module course, lasting 11 days plus pre-study will teach you all the relevant Practitioner material for sport and coaching, plus a special 2 day module purely for sports applications - ideal for coaches, players and athletes of all levels. 28-31 March and 24-28 April and 7-8 May 2009. The investment is £2,175 plus VAT. You will give two live coaching sessions during the course. We GUARANTEE your satisfaction or we refund in full.

United Kingdom

NLP FOR PRACTITIONERS
Contact: Peter Delves (01926) 856746
From Date:    03/28/2009       To Date:    03/28/2009
DETAILS:
NLP training courses in the UK are typically aimed at a very wide market, and can include managers, teachers and salespeople. However this NLP course is uniquely designed to be of specific benefit to therapists, counsellors and coaches. The training will provide you with insights, tools and techniques from the field of NLP, enabling you to enrich existing skills and discover powerful new ones so that you can dramatically improve your effectiveness with clients. Location: Leamington Spa, Warwickshire - UK

United Kingdom

ZETETIC MODELLING
Contact: Joseph Pritchard
From Date:    03/28/2009       To Date:    03/31/2009
DETAILS:
20 Day Zetetic Modelling course. Cornwall. Joseph Pritchard www.zeteticmind.com

United Kingdom

MASTER PRACTITIONER PROGRAMMER
Contact: Lisa Wake; Mark Wake - 01642 714702
From Date:    03/30/2009       To Date:    06/20/2009
DETAILS:
An 18 day certified Master Practitioner Programme in North Yorkshire. This training company is approved by ANLP and fully participates in the process towards UKCP accreditation. 3 modules of 6 days on 30 Mar-4 Apr, 18-23 May & 15-20 June 2009. £1950+vat for self funding, £2250+vat for corporate. Highly experiential course that is designed to bring your skills to a high level of competence and confidence. Trainers Lisa & Mark Wake. Location: Middlesbrough - UK

United Kingdom




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